DEAR ASK A PUNK - The snow is piled deep outside my apartment here near the banks of Lake Ontario and I just can't stand it any more, although I don't think it's just the snow causing this feeling and I should clarify that it's not "my" apartment, but "our" apartment. I live with my boyfriend and that is fine as far as it goes, but as I approach 30 (in March) I wonder if I'll ever escape New York State.