I'm experiencing a soul-deep exhaustion that years of surviving, childhood wounds, mental illness, disability, and verbal abuse have left behind. I've spent so much of my life trying to prove I'm worthy of love that I've slowly lost sight of who I am. A toxic marriage has worn me down, leaving me questioning my worth, believing cruel words, and wondering if I'm the monster I've been made out to be.

Creation:The story of us   The year was 1978 around the Fourth of July when I first started. My mother,father,sister and brother were all staying in tents in Montana. Dad was a guide for hunting and fishing and such,while my mother picked fruit trees following the seasonal work. My sister would have been the oldest at five years old and my brother was probably two. Dad said we moved with the work back then,when I asked him much later in life. My family liked to explore.    It was April when I was done growing inside my mother and took my first breath in southern Missouri where my father had grown up and mom had family. I really don’t know where we went or stayed before we traveled to Oregon back to the mountains for a few years. That was where mom found out she was sick. She was told she had leukemia. I was eight so it was around 1987 and leukemia was rare and new to western medicine. After talks with doctors and experts we moved back to Missouri again to be close to family. Dad….

Trauma, temperament, devotion, conditioning, and the complicated business of wanting to surrender. Where does submission come from?

One of the biggest misconceptions about submission is that it is defined entirely by an internal feeling. You feel small. You feel obedient. You feel aroused by authority. You enjoy being told what to do. You feel a rush when someone takes control. Those feelings can absolutely be part of submission. But feelings alone don't make you a reliable submissive, or a good partner in a dynamic...

The devil tries endlessly to destroy us and break our faith.. often times the devil will use the people we love the most and cause high stakes of tension. His end game is to destroy your faith in the one who has shown his love everyday. Just because you are going through a difficult time, doesn't mean its the end. Fight back against the devil.

New from PrincessPoppitt: Pain for Pleasure — How Pain Play Can Intensify the Mind, the Body, and Everything Between. Because darling, there's a great deal more going on beneath the surface.

A submissive can spend weeks searching for a Domme, only to discover that the woman he thought would lovingly guide him is primarily interested in draining his wallet, or that the intimidating leather-clad Goddess he imagined is actually a soft, nurturing caretaker. Neither is inherently wrong. But goodness, darling, imagine how much time we could save if we learned to read the signposts before wandering into the wrong castle.

Kink and fetish are not quite the same thing, darling. One may describe an activity you enjoy, while the other often centers on a particular object, body part, material, or stimulus that plays a significant role in your arousal. Let's untangle the terminology, explore where the two overlap, and explain why understanding your desires matters far more than squeezing yourself into a label.

There are some subjects in kink that seem to have become almost impossible to discuss without somebody immediately dragging the conversation somewhere it doesn't belong. Age play is one of them.

One of the most interesting things about kink is that you don't have to put every interest you have into its own little box. What Happens When Your Kinks Collide?

Chastity isn't simply about a lock, a key, or denying an orgasm. It can become a powerful language of devotion, trust, anticipation, control, and psychological submission. Explore what chastity can truly mean within a D/s dynamic, from rituals and rewards to mind games, everyday devotion, and the safety every responsible Domme should understand.

True dominance isn't about possessing power; it's about being trusted with power. The authority a Dominant holds exists because the submissive chose to give it, and that gift can be reclaimed at any time. This piece explores the responsibility, humility, trust, and accountability that should come with being handed someone else's power—and why the strongest Dominants understand that being chosen is a privilege, not an entitlement.

I absolutely believe a Domme’s time has value. But I also believe there’s a difference between charging for your time and demanding tribute before someone has even had the chance to know you. For me, tribute is more like a tip. Something earned through the experience, connection, trust, and dynamic we build—not an automatic toll at the castle gate. And yes… I have thoughts about both sides of this argument.

Submission should never mean disappearing into someone else's rules. Discover how a submissive’s Butler Book serves as a living record of your limits, questions, and personal growth. Complete with a look at "Why I Chose This," learn how keeping track of your dynamic ensures that power exchange remains a deliberate, ongoing choice that fulfills both partners.

In the beginning of a dynamic, remembering every preference, limit, and late-night conversation feels effortless. Six months later? Life happens. Borrowing a classic concept from historic household management, discover why keeping a "Butler Book"—a private reference system for your dynamic—isn't about creepiness or control, but about being a more attentive, responsible, and effective leader.

Rules tell you what to do, protocol tells you how to do it, and ritual is where it gets personal. When power exchange moves off the screen and into daily life, how do you build structure without suffocating the relationship? Discover how to design a dynamic that evolves with you—turning arbitrary commands into a shared language that actually lasts.

Arrangements can be casual. People aren't. Spanning decades of unspoken intimacy, childhood history, and sudden, devastating loss, this true story unpacks what it really means when two people belong to each other—without ever needing a contract to prove it.

A reflection on embarrassment, growing from our mistakes, and learning to meet our past selves with compassion.

Loving a woman the right way isn’t about perfection. It’s about intention, Here’s the truth: Most of the time, she doesn’t want you to fix her problem.

Just because you stopped acting like an obvious scammer doesn't mean you've learned how to build a D/s dynamic. Tribute may be part of some relationships, but it can never replace trust, communication, curiosity, and actually getting to know one another. A submissive asking questions isn't challenging your dominance, they're deciding whether you're worthy of their submission.